How sad it seems that so many people are seperated from friends and relations due to some misunderstanding,some thing silly keeps them apart,they hold grudges even hate each other.
I am blessed with the ability to forgive and always think that if i put my pride in my pocket so to speak and go forth and try to meet some one harf way at the very least my conscionce is clear.
0f course it is easy to hate some one,and the road to hell is an easy road but just because its easy do not think it brings joy, the devil only wants you to do his dirty work and you can reach a point where you say no and then the devil will turn on you.
There is no stopping the devil he will have you do anything it will never be enough until you say no more and getting him of your back will be the hardest thing you ever did.
Its much easier to give up that ciggy or that next drink or whatever if you remember it is controlling you and you want to be the one in control.
How much are we losing out on by holding grudges,would it not be better to sit down and discuss the differences, it will not always be possible of course there are some who will not forgive and do not want to,there are some who hate just for the sake of it, they hate every thing, they do not need a reason, these people hurt others deeply.
There are some who never look at themselves and see there own wrong doing. And some never forgive and in the eyes of god are never forgiven.
I do not believe that you can be happy when you know in your heart what you have done to some one else is wrong.
2008-07-15 @ 13:49